Abe Bought Subforce JiuJitsu, the School Where Marcos Still Teaches

Sean
Flannigan
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September 30, 2026

When Abe Awad took over Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai in Lyndhurst, New Jersey, most of the members found out by asking.

What they noticed on their own was small stuff: a new check-in system at the front desk, a fresh coat of paint on the walls.

Most stories about buying a martial arts school start with a broker.

This one starts with a teenager who lived for the Friday visits of an instructor from somewhere else.

It ends with him holding the keys to the school where that instructor still teaches.

Alex Cuevas got there by way of a bad no-gi session. So he dug out his trusty Gymdesk gi and headed to Ridge Road in Lyndhurst to see if a gi class could get some of the mojo back.

There was a kids' class when he walked in.

Abe and his head coach, Marcos Duarte, sat down with Alex to explain how a student ends up owning the place.

The Friday Visitor

Abe wanted to do martial arts from the time he was about five, mostly because of the Ninja Turtles. He got five months of Taekwondo as a kid before his parents pulled him out.

At 15 he started paying for his own training.

A couple of years later, he and a training partner were at a school they liked well enough. Then a visitor started showing up.

“
At the time, me and my buddy that he's talking about, we were training somewhere and Marcos would come visit every like Friday or something. And we were just starving for like, you know, really good technique and skill.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

Marcos tells it from the other side of the mat.

“
And I gladly took them under my wing and started molding them and fashioning them to be assassins.
Marcos Duarte, head coach, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

He added, after a beat, "Low key." (Which is about as low key as anything else he said all night.)

What followed was a small conspiracy.

Marcos would teach them something on his Friday visit and send them off to try it on specific people in their home gym. Abe was in on it.

“
It became this like low key, unspoken, covert operation in the, in the training environment we were in.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

Eventually the two of them just started following Marcos wherever he taught. That's how Abe got to Lyndhurst.

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The Mats and the Business

Marcos found the Lyndhurst school while picking up teaching jobs around the area.

He was offered a Saturday class, and it went well enough that he got Sunday too. Eventually he replaced the previous instructor as head of the jiu-jitsu program, teaching and assisting the kids' classes on the side.

Then he did what he'd been doing since the Friday visits.

“
So, yeah, I got the position as the head instructor for the jiu-jitsu program, as well as teaching kids and assisting kids' classes. And brought him along. And then he got an opportunity... He was training and he got an opportunity to start teaching kids' classes as well. And now he owns this joint.
Marcos Duarte, head coach, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

Abe's version is shorter. "I was taking his class from day one."

That was at the school's old building. Later the school moved to a bigger space on Ridge Road. Over time Abe went from kids' classes to adult classes to two or three classes a day, and he learned to sign people up along the way.

He also picked up a second mentor: the school's founder, who had stopped teaching adults by then but still taught kids.

“
But he was a mentor in teaching all the kids' classes how to talk to people, how to talk to customers, members, how to talk to parents when their kids are in the class.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

It went past customer service. Abe says the founder taught him how to present himself, how to get out of debt, and how to pay his bills, the stuff nobody had taught him in school.

The Offer

Then the founder decided to retire.

He went to Abe, told him he was fit for the position, and offered to sell him the school. What he wanted was someone who'd been there, someone the members already knew.

Abe said yes.

“
I didn't want to be the dreamer. I wanted to be the guy who freaking gets it done. And I did it.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

Abe wasn't the only one the founder asked.

“
The opportunity was offered to me. I passed up on it. I'm like, give it to this man.
Marcos Duarte, head coach, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

Marcos had been teaching there since the old building, and he knew what carrying the whole place would cost him.

“
I didn't want to carry a building over my head of however many students at night at this age. I have so many other things I want to do.
Marcos Duarte, head coach, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

Other schools keep the handover inside, too.

At OCTA Jiu-Jitsu, co-owner Luiz Costa gave the newest of its seven locations, Oakville North, to his son Michael, which we covered in OCTA's succession story.

The Subforce founder offered his school to his head coach and to Abe, and Abe took it.

Alex asked Marcos what it's like when your student becomes your boss. Marcos talked about how the two of them went from teacher and student to best friends.

Then, in case anyone missed it: "That's just my brother."

From student to owner
Around age 5
Hooked on martial arts
Mostly because of the Ninja Turtles. He got five months of Taekwondo as a kid before his parents pulled him out.
Age 15
Paying his own way
Abe started paying for his own training.
A couple of years later
The Friday visitor
Marcos visited their school on Fridays. Abe and his training partner ended up following him wherever he taught.
The old building
Lyndhurst, day one
Marcos became head of the jiu-jitsu program and brought Abe along. Abe took his class from day one, then started teaching kids' classes.
Ridge Road
Two or three classes a day
The school moved to a bigger space. Abe went from kids' classes to adult classes and learned to sign people up.
The handover
The founder retires
He offered the school to Marcos, who passed, and to Abe, who said yes.

Business as Usual

Abe wanted the takeover to feel like business as usual.

“
No one even notices. Like, I didn't make a big deal about it. People asked and I eventually told them.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

The members did catch a few things.

“
Whoa! You got the check-in system now. Whoa! You know, there's a fresh coat of paint on the wall.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

Beyond that, he kept things the same, coaches included.

He calls buying the school you trained at "the perfect scenario," and he's thought about the other version, the one where the founder sells to an outsider.

“
If there was a brand new owner that came in, some other guy, some other black belt that used to own a school, he came in. It'd be different. We'd probably be out of a job, to be honest.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

One Building, Several Businesses

Jiu-jitsu shares the building with Muay Thai, MMA, and judo. Muay Thai runs in the basement. Judo, the newest program, runs Monday, Wednesday, and Friday under head judo instructor Steven Santos.

“
But if you think about it from a business standpoint, I could have multiple businesses running out of one facility, right?
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

New people get a free week to try all of it.

Some come in looking for judo and sign up for Muay Thai. Some come in for Muay Thai, try jiu-jitsu, and find it's way more useful than they expected.

Shopping for Software

One change Abe did make was the software behind the front desk. The school had been running on a system he describes without much affection.

“
We were using an old software. That was outdated. The customer service was terrible. They weren't updating their system. So, it looked like it was 10 years old.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

He compared a few options and landed on Gymdesk.

His list was specific to a martial arts school: waivers, check-ins, memberships and class passes, and a place for ranks.

‍"I need to be able to put somebody's belt rank on there."

Then there was the marketing side.

“
I didn't have to get another software on the side to do marketing, email, texting. It was all built in.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

He has one test for software.

‍"If I can't figure it out in five minutes, it's too complicated, right?"

Day one, he wanted to build a membership and sign up a student by himself.

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And with Gymdesk, I felt like I was able to figure a lot of that stuff out on my own.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

He also says it helped to have someone guide him through the rest.

Before signing with Gymdesk, Abe got on a sales call with another company.

“
We were on a call with another, a Zoom call with another company and there was like eight or nine people on that call.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai

They didn't answer his questions.

Then came the schedule: an introduction meeting, a data meeting, a check-in four weeks out, a meeting four to six weeks from launch, another at three weeks. Abe was buying a school that was already open, with members already walking through the door.

“
Do you think I'm buying like a Fortune 500 company or something? I just want a membership software, dude. Just sell me the thing.
My business is running. I need it now, not four to six weeks from now.
Abe Awad, owner, Subforce Jiujitsu & Muay Thai
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